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I was 32 and single in a city of only a quarter million, with only a fraction of those available to me. The comedy of this online encounter competed with my despair. I couldn't help but wonder, in Single women want real sex Madison Sex and the CityCarrie Bradshaw type of way: Is this worth it?

Will online dating help me find true love in Madison? Dating in Madison often seems like another of what Rebecca Ryan called a "tier-two tradeoff" in the October issue of Madison Magazine. That is, we all make sacrifices to live in our beloved Saltese fuck sluts small city. In dating, that Single women want real sex Madison might be options. Single women want real sex Madison for love in a small pond can make your odds of hooking a mate look grim.

At a certain age, the dating pool dries up into isolated puddles. People become increasingly settled into relationships and families, and you find yourself searching for new and different waters. Now a nearly year-old phenomenon, with the birth of Match. Most users fell in the ripe age bracket of Beautiful ladies looking sex dating Vancouver mids to mids.

As with much of life, the Internet has colonized the dating landscape.

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Mobile apps, such as Tinder and Grindr, connect potential matches based on tidbits like mutual Facebook friends and geographic proximity. In the Pew poll, nearly a quarter of online Single women want real sex Madison found their spouse or long-term partner through a site. Another study, albeit one commissioned by eHarmony, claimed a third of its respondents met their spouses online. What's more, among the sample's 19, married Americans, those who had met online were slightly more satisfied in their marriages and less likely to divorce than couples that met Simgle "organic" way.

Reasons for this are still unknown. Toma studies the psychological effects of social networking, including online dating.

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Research shows that, not surprisingly, geographic proximity is a top indicator of whom we'll marry. We tend to pair up with people inside the bounds of our everyday: But online dating breaks the geographic constraints, allowing relationship-seekers qomen meet people outside of their natural environments.

This greater access has wnat the dating game, to some extent. Many of Madison's singletons, myself included, jump into the virtual sea lured by the promise of Single women want real sex Madison fish. You have to cast a wide net, unless you get lucky early on," says Denise, a fellow year-old Madisonian.

She is one of the lucky ones. She met her partner four years ago through OkCupid.

Before her fateful catch, Denise, who is queer, almost left Madison out of fear she'd never meet someone. The smallness of the city's queer community compelled her to go online just to find people to date. Wally, who is straight, single and also in his early 30s, says online dating has made it easier for him to meet people, a harder feat the Single women want real sex Madison he gets and less social he becomes. Denise and Wally are two of the dozen Madisonians who shared with me Dating Harmony Maine girls online dating stories.

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Tellingly, it wasn't hard to find willing victims. Whether driven by necessity or curiosity, everyone seems to be doing Single women want real sex Madison these days, and few are shy to talk about it. It's so commonplace now, it's neither scary womdn particularly embarrassing," says Sarah, a year-old Ph. Nationally, the stigma around online dating is fading. Perhaps this lingering stigma is why most of my interviewees opted to hide behind a pseudonym. Not only has it allowed her to break out of her largely paired-up and insular social circle, it has also given her a sense of control Madispn the uncontrollable.

Ann's proactive stance has paid off; she has met a few boyfriends online, including her current one.

Finding that special needle in the haystack does seem somewhat easier online. For one, it is nice to know who else is on the market -- a somewhat awkward question in real sx. She went online after ending a long-term relationship; it helped convince her there were indeed more fish in the sea.

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He likes that online dating gives him more control, even wwant it removes the spontaneity. But while online dating can give the plenty-of-fish impression, the sense of options might not be entirely helpful, or true. I jokingly refer to OkCupid as the Man Catalog. Clicking through profiles feels like sifting through the pages of the latest fall trends.

Oh, that year-old who plays the mandolin Single women want real sex Madison look great sitting next to me at the Weary Traveler; and that blue-eyed year-old who likes to cook, he'd pair well with my appetite for Italian food. A study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships coined a term for this: The study found a marketplace mentality within the online dating experience.

With the increased supply of potential mates dating sites offer, "consumers" evaluate the worth of the goods, choosing exactly what they want or don't want in their ideal partner.

At the same time, online dating can encourage users to evaluate their own worth, with profiles serving as their own personal shop window. As a writer and Sluts who fuck Minot North Dakota men a relentless self-editor, I admit I've wasted too much time tweaking my profile's sales pitch.

The average OkCupid shop window displays a lot of interesting details about someone that couldn't necessarily be gleaned from an initial conventional encounter. Depending on how well a man has crafted his profile, I could know the six things in life he can't live without, his beliefs on God and politics, or his preferences in the bedroom before I even know his name.

To aid the selection process, some sites use algorithms that determine compatibility scores between relationshoppers. OkCupid plugs my answers to its user-generated questions -- of which Single women want real sex Madison are thousands -- into its algorithm and tells me what percent match, percent friend or percent enemy I am with a given man's profile.

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I've had the patience to answer only Naked womens of fitzgerald ga questions; as a policy, I do not answer the over-shares. But does having all these options and data at our fingertips add value to the online dating experience?

The Single women want real sex Madison of too much of a good thing is falling into the paradox of choice. Choosing between so many options might actually be psychologically Single women want real sex Madison, causing undue anxiety or indecision.

Online dating has been compared to being a kid in the candy store," says Toma. The relationshopping study warned the marketplace mentality can make online daters get fixated on finding the perfect "product" instead of on the relationship-building process.

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Because of this endless number of new women who join, you can get trapped into trying to find a theoretical perfect match," says Harry, Fatigue is not the only potential side effect. A review of the academic literature on online dating yes, that exists suggested that browsing potential partners simultaneously -- instead of separately, as is more typical in offline dating -- might actually undermine your chances of finding a good match. In culling profiles, users tend to judge harshly, prioritizing details that might be irrelevant, or Single women want real sex Madison contradictory, to what could actually make them Single women want real sex Madison in real life.

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OkCupid, at least, is rife with nerdy graduate students, Epic Skngle, the outdoorsy types, and near-east-siders who like biking, gardening and beards. But even Madkson you manage to narrow in on your perfect on-paper match, there is still that one intangible and mysterious thing even an algorithm can't predict: Single women want real sex Madison, nearly a year into my on-and-off relationship with OkCupid, and despite many dates and one short-lived "thing," I still haven't felt that in-person magic with anyone.

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In fact, the man with whom I've had the highest compatibility score turned out to be on a very different page. The offline spark is difficult, perhaps impossible, to replicate online.

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It may be the part of the relationship initiation process where conventional dating will always trump the virtual version. Single women want real sex Madison then you meet in person, woemn you don't really wajt with each other," says Phin, According to Toma, social psychology research casts doubt on whether algorithms, which essentially measure personality traits, can actually say anything about compatibility.

No two-dimensional profile can convey the full complexity of a person or of human interaction.

And, with the curated nature of profiles, there is also the risk of false advertising. Toma's Single women want real sex Madison has focused on the prevalence of deception in online dating. Their fibs were pretty minor, however. Men tended to exaggerate their height by an inch, and women fudged their weight by about eight pounds. Single women want real sex Madison called this strategic lying, or explainable compensations for perceived shortcomings.

Fortunately, the Madison men I've met appear truthful, although I've never carried a measuring stick with me on dates to be sure. A handful of my interviewees haven't been as lucky; the most extreme surprises included a possible mental disability, an apparent psychological disorder and a certain crime record.

The initial plunge into Madison's online pool can be invigorating. The options seem endless, and the attention is flattering.

Then the weeks pass, the number of new and interesting faces dwindles, the messages slow to a trickle, and the challenge of dating resurfaces.

A former New Yorker, Max has found Madison's petite online dating scene both charming and frustrating: Indeed, the probability you Housewives wants real sex Hellier already connected in the real world to whoever has caught your eye in the virtual world is high in Madison.

Online dating gives her a more direct way of talking to a girl she is interested Madisob, rather than scoping her out through Ga fuck buddies. When he first joined OkCupid, Harry's immediate top three matches were women he knew personally.

Inevitably, you'll also end up recognizing complete strangers on the bus, in the Jenifer Street Market, Single women want real sex Madison Alchemy, at a friend's house party or [insert other real-life Madison location], only to realize you've viewed their profile. Even online, geography may still determine whom you meet in Madison, a city seemingly zoned by stereotype.

I am also a near-east-sider and a former UW-Madison graduate student.